my circle was a problem

all of the people I was around was killing me and I didn’t even know it. I was just used to my life and everything I had around it. i had always wanted to go new places and try new things but that wasn’t what all of my friends wanted to do. they just wanted to do the same thing every day. go to the bar, sit around, Talk about drama and stupid shit.

I still don’t know what clicked, but one day I had got a chance to take a trip with another friend of mine that was not part of the close friends group. she had an extra ticket to a concert that was a few states away. I was all excited and told them. Immediately they were talking shit. Nobody said it was cool, “ hell yea”, that’s great… Nothing.

Something just sank in and realized these people were just happy doing nothing and I wasn’t. I went to the concert, had a great time and met some people that were actually pretty local. Since then, I stopped being around them all the time and my entire life has been going up since then. Everyone I hang around now has goals and things they want to do. It’s crazy that so many things have popped up that i never thought i would be able to do. They just came out of nowhere and still do all the time.

I learned that no matter who you are around, you will live their lives even if it’s not what you want. You have to be around people who have what you want or have the same goals. If not, you will live what they others live.

NO THANKS!